15.05.19 22.04.20

De Living - Ersan Mondtag


De Living Hupfeld 2649A Birgit Hupfeld
The last hour in the life of a human being. The show starts with a woman coming home to her living room and ends with her committing suicide. Or is it the other way around? Can this final hour also be told backwards – bringing her back to life again?

Antigone, Ophelia, Hedda Gabler – in theatre history female characters who commit suicide are always rebellious and afflicted at the same time. But the beauty of this attitude can only find expression in their dead bodies. The audience knows from the beginning that the protagonist will die in the last act, but still we go to see the show. Accustomed to the feeling of inescapability we watch entranced as death closes in. By witnessing these scenes over and over again, we experience all facets of political and existential dedication and powerlessness. But is there a way out? Can we escape the fatal sequence of events?

De Living depicts the last scene before a woman takes her own life. We see her final gestures, the attempt to maintain normality, a moment of decisiveness, then hesitation, a will to live that must be silenced, and the sudden panic in the face of an uncontrolled death. As opposed to the classical tragedies, the audience witnessing the final scene does not know what drives the woman into suicide. They can only speculate about her past. An unhappy love affair one might expect. Can she perhaps not withstand the enduring pressure of society? Or does the last scene in a woman's life tell less about individual fate than about the tragic experience of humanity in a dystopian yet near future?

Her death would then be a manifestation of a general fatigue, a mass disease, as diagnosed at the beginning of the new millennium by the French sociologist Alain Ehrenberg. But perhaps the causes of her depression lie much further back – in a history that is as painful as it is ignored, as described by the Cameroonian political scientist Achille Mbembe: At the beginning of the transnational slave trade, when people began treating other people as a commodity and proceeded to build walls to keep a part of humankind from having a share in the wealth of the world. In the near future, the majority of humans will no longer even be needed as slaves. In the final scene before death, we still struggle with an impulsive fear of an external threat yet at the same time we know that with everything we do, we are preparing for a collective suicide by bringing about the climate collapse.

But what we learn in the theatre about today's world, while watching this final scene over and over again, is much more ambiguous. Perhaps the various nightmarish diagnoses of our time are only based on the delusions of a few prophets who spread a media-effective apocalyptic atmosphere. And even if we could turn back time, we probably wouldn't know what we could have done differently. Or was there that one moment in time when we could have averted the suicide? How can we regain the strength to overcome this feeling of powerlessness and paralysis that is increasingly dominating our society?

Ersan Mondtag is one of the most celebrated German directors of the young generation. He was invited to the Berliner Theatertreffen with his works Tyrannis, Die Vernichtung and recently Das Internat. As an all-around artist, he was nominated as Up-and-coming Director and Stage and Costume Designer of the Year in the German-speaking area. For De Living (The living room), he works for the first time in Belgium.

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under 26: €14


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estimated duration

  • Doris Bokongo Nkumu
  • Nathalie Bokongo Nkumu


Ersan Mondtag

composer & sound designer

Gerrit Netzlaff


Eva-Maria Bertschy

radio voice

Simon Turner

set and costume design

Ersan Mondtag

light design

Dennis Diels

movement coach

Stella Höttler

acting coach

Oscar Van Rompay

production management

Sebastiaan Peeters

direction assistant

Liesbeth Standaert

technical team production

Oliver Houttekiet

sound technique

Bart Meeusen , Raf Willems

light technique

Eva Dermul

set plan

Tony Morawe , Joris Soenen

set and props

Thierry Dhondt , Pierre Keulemans , Flup Beys , Michiel Moors , Freddy Schoonackers

set painting

Luc Goedertier , Eva Devriendt , Kachiri Faes , Joris Soenen

costume creation

Isabelle Stepman , An De Mol , Mieke Van der Cruyssen

scientific advice

Benigna Gerisch


La Villette (Paris) , Theaterfestival Boulevard ('s Hertogenbosch) , Kunstenfestivaldesarts (Brussels) , HAU Hebbel am Ufer (Berlin)

this production was realized with the support of

The Belgian Tax Shelter



Wednesday 05 February 2020
Luik (Théâtre de Liège)


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  • Roger Van Den Bulcke

    Vooreerst een proficiat voor de mensen van decor, kostumering, licht en muziek. Het deed deugd nog eens een perfect uitgewerkt decor te mogen aanschouwen. Ik dacht dit is een film, maar dan dringt het door dat dit live gespeeld wordt en dat het spel wordt aangestuurd door een strakke regie.
    Doris en Nathalie Bokongo Nkumu werden in de living neergezet en boeiden met een (relatief) eenvoudig, ingetogen maar doordacht spelpatroon. Twee glimmende parels die knap een ingeleefde prachtprestatie neerzetten.
    Moet het nu gaan over zelfmoord als gevolg van een doelloze, mislukte levensloop? Het kiezen voor een definitief afscheid? Tragische triomf van de verdrukking van het individu ? Dat MOET inderdaad. Deze voorstelling schudt je even los en stampt tegen je hersenkont. Je kan er veel van opsteken. Vijf sterren van mijnentwege.
    Ik meen dat dit een “1st class” afsluiter is voor dit eerste seizoen van Milo Rau. Ik kijk al uit naar het vervolg.
    Merci NTG.